Falling in love is the best feeling in this world. I know many of you think that love hurts a lot, partners are not trustworthy, they don’t understand your feelings or only you love them they don’t. If you feel all these negative things then please read this each and every word of it, with a practical approach. I am sure, it will help you a lot to enjoy your love rather than regretting it. This is one of the worse things that can happen to anyone, falling in love with someone you can’t have.
The most challenging phase of love is when you fall in love with someone, whom you can’t get or not even think of getting him/her in your life. It hurts sometimes, and you even feel very painful when you miss that person. Loving someone is not in your control, it’s just a feeling and tough to get over it.
Now, it’s up to you that how you take this love in your life, with a positive approach or negative approach? Having a negative approach has kept on crying for that person, who don’t take you more than a friend and not even notice your tears. Another approach is to take the feeling positively and enjoy the moment to the fullest.
How to be in love when another person when another person don’t love you back:
- Think in a positive way:
If you think that providing tips is very easy and applying them is very difficult than just for five days try to apply these tips with a positive approach. No tips can make your life better unless you want it to be better. If you will keep sympathy with yourself and expecting same with others, you won’t able to enjoy the feeling of true love.
- Expectations:
True Love is always unconditional, then why you start expecting that the person should love you back?
If you are expecting to return the love back as much as you love him/her then it’s not true love. Why can’t you just love that person? Love is neither a business nor a give and takes relationship. How you can think of love when you have so many expectations. Even if he/she doesn’t reply to your text messages, emails or phone calls, why you get hurt? You want to convey your feelings, and you did that. Don’t ever expect that the person will respond it back otherwise it will hurt you for sure.
- Don’t force them to love you:
The main reason for not getting the person you love is that they don’t love you or might be committed to someone else. Think once from his/her point of view, you might not be the one he/she is looking for. Everyone has their choice, and they have all rights to choose the one they find interesting and loving to them. You can never force anyone to fall in love with you.
The day you will stop crying for your love, you will start enjoying it. If you find it tough to get over the person you love then waits for my next article for tips to get over someone you love.
But yes, the best advice would move on. Life is short, and there is no point in waiting and falling in love with someone you can’t have. Instead, find someone special, who completes you.
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Guys i m bhavesh
i luv my best friend but neaver had dareng to say her but dnt know how did she got to know about it i m feelng very sad but i do any thing
but how i feel is like when i see this preson i get so hard to talk to this preson a this preson talk and frist i was overthis preson the i and falling i love again
hi i am anant .i liked one girl very much .i talked and do friendship on facebook.she studied in my school where i studied.i was senior to him.she accepted my friendship.we talked on facebook.i told to go on movie,she thoght i am bad .but whwn i told baout my pain in family she replied by saying sorry.she apologized.she liked my photo on facebook after that she liked my comment which i said to her on oher photo of facebook.we met each other she looked happy to see me.we stayed near to each other residence.she talked about me to her friends.she liked me.when i came from her gali she made a remark by saying to her friend that when anant will come to talk to me.i hesitated to talk .because i started loving her very much.then i spent my days in park and her gali.after spending many days in park just roming over their.she had a misconception about me.i told her on facenbook manier times i like you she replied yes by saying i know now taht you love me and she loved to talk with me.then i told to her friend that i will marry her as i told my detals that i m doing pilot training.and my father stays in dubai .the boy told to the girl about this .she took in bad way.she thought that im just in order to impress her is telling lie that im pilot.and also sais that i am thurkee.she sais that i wrote to this many girls on facebook that i like her.she thought im cheatinmg to her .earliers she liked me very much and respected.then she got angry and sid to complain to her mother about me.i felt bad and apologized to her mother without any reason and committed that i love her.she was small in age taht is why her mother just accepted my forgiveness bit inan angry way and told that she is at a smaal age and sais me to leave. i felt very badand cried.next whaen i asked to her friends they replied taht she thinks very bad about you that yyou are just cheating over her but earlier she loved and liked you.then the mother of teh girl ehich i liked talk about me to my friends that what kind of a guy im was.the mother was then enquiring about me .but my friends does not told anything and even refused to recognize that im their friend.telll mee please what to do.im depreesed .teel me the solution
I was in an abusive relationship with my husband thru whom I have two kids. When I was going thru a bad patch I met and fell in love with a much younger guy. He was everything I would have wanted in a man. We were in a relationship for a year though many times he had warned me that this wouldn’t last because his family were looking for him to marry. He has never mislead me but I still feel terribly hurt that I have to let go of someone whom I truly love. Somehow I am never lucky with love, I loved my husband but he always abused me but wouldn’t divorce me and I thought I found love again only its out of my grasp again.
I have been in an abusive relationship for 15 years with my husband through whom I have kids. During a very bad patch I met and fell in love with a much younger guy who had everything I wanted in a man. But he always warned me that this relationship wouldn’t last because they were looking out for his marriage. He wants to call if off after a year now and I am terribly hurt and cannot come to terms . I am so unlucky in love. how do I let go gracefully.
Why does it have to be like that? I mean sometimes you know that this person loves you by simply looking at the way they approach you, things they write on your wall and how the coult unexpectedly touch you from the back. It feels like your the one who messed up things by telling them you love them. Or is it the way I conveyed this message?
i love a guy since 5 years. He also knows that. I told him that i like him and he didnt rejected me. Also gave me hints. But since 6 months only i call him he just replies but never calls. But do reply everytime i call. I started forcing him to call me from past few days. I think i was wrong. Our views also doesnt match like regarding dowry.
i do agree dont waste ur time to the person that he doesnt love you just move on coz i do hope their is mr right is wating for on the way just be you be true n play it really
i fall in love with a woman who is approx 11 year older than me. she also had twice time divorce and have a 7 year old daughter. i am 24 year old and i am a student ,i just want to get rid off all this feeling and concentrate on my study.because when i study or doing any work ,her memory are comes in my mind and i am distract from my aim please tell me what should i do either i propose her or not ?
Whats wrong in keeping that person for ever in your heart despite knowing she wont be urs.?
Be ok with everyone nd dont let nyone to understand whats goin on inside. Coz you wont ve the courage to start it all over again
Hi ruchi,
I hope I’m not too late to thank you for your insights. Though it does not have the answer to my problem, but it definitely helps a lot.
I am really grateful I’ve come across this article of yours.
Cheers!
Ahhhh.. This is all true but what do I do when just seeing him wrenches my heart out?.. The guy I love lives with us… I try to avoid him but we go to the same school and he has one of the same classes as me. He gives me hugs and is nice to me but hes in love with another girl… Just being around him feels like someone is stabbing a knife into my chest and twisting it… ‘ve wanted to harm myself so many times because of this.. He talks about the girl he loves a lot to me.. He doesn’t ever notice I’m on the verge of tears because I hide it so well. I’ve loved him since middleschool and used to blush at the sight of him. Now I managed to get my emotions under controll since I’m in high school but.. I still cry every night at the thought of him… Why can’t I just lose all emotional pain?………
hey ruchi this is sasha i dont know how to begin this but this has been complicated for me. so basically i have been texting and facebooking a guy for ages (we are in the same class but we never talked in class, people dont even know we were friends)and i think he knew i like him, but i wasnt sure, but he was being really nice and kind of flirty i guess. He is not the usual type of guy, he is very quite and shy and never parties and he is such a nice guy and i am pretty such he is not a player consider he hasnt liked nor gone out with a lot of girls. I told one of his friends, that is also one of my very good friend that i am not sure if i have fallen for him or not. and so that my friend decided to talk to him about it, which was so embrassing, but then he started being a bit more forward and invite me to his house to watch a film. i went and there was a lot of cuddling and he was hold my hand, no kisses but we were both shy i knew. But then the days after that weekend, he stopped texting me and i found out from his mate that he said he said ther wasnt a click. i didnt know what to do i just kept talking to him and pretend as if nothing has happened. but i was probably being a bit annoying, cuz i just couldnt stand not talking to him. Mr freinds said maybe he was just experimenting and i probably just exspecting a little bit too much. it took me three weeks to get over the pain totally. but i still want to talk to him sometimes. i just dunno if i should give up on him or not, but at the same time i am not sure if i still actually like him or not, cuz to be honest i dont really think about him anymore and i dont think i feel anything, but i know i still want to like him. whats wrong with me?
Hey sasha,
I guess it’s more ego to get him back rather than love. You are confused and there is no confusion in love. Since he back-off, it’s hurting you more. Try to ignore him and move on with your life. You will surely get one you deserve.
I had fallen in love with boy who dont love me bt i miss him a lot nd what him in my life nd were nt talking since a month plz help me
I like this article. So many times we end up pining. But true love makes you feel your best around the person and they bring the best out in you! No matter whether you are meant to be together or not (as more than friends and if either is committed to someone already) or simply to be put in your life for a special reason! True love has no boundaries! Great article, I will keep the positivity flowing!
Hi, i just came across this post browsing thru the internet, seeking for an outlet of an emotional upheavel, seeking solace in a love unfulfilled, seeking answers and hope. I write here, cos no one knws me here and depressed and have no clue how to get rid of my feelings. I am in love with this guy..atleast i think it is love..I met him 2 years ago..he was a co-worker. We were on great talking terms for a couple of months, n i started to fall for him. I nvr showed it. But i duno what happnd, n he suddenly stopped talking to me just like that. I tried to be normal, to behave like ntgs hppnd, but got very dry un-interested responses from him. An invisible wall was created. I even tried asking him subtely one day what the matter was, but he dint respond, N he was suddenly on great talking terms with another girl now. Always hanging about her desk most of the time…the same way he did with me. I went thru alot of emotions since then due to his behaviour-hurt, confusion, anger, care-a-damn attitude, but it always ended up in hurt and longing and missing him. Everytime he spoke to her, i felt like he is stabbing me with a knife. M feelings to me weren’t jealousy- i was just clueless..it was like “wht hppnd to us! we were great friends too! One day u hang all around me, n next day m no one! I just dont get it!” I tried ignoring, keeping myself busy with work n other matters, tried everythg to move on. But its two yrs now, n i left that job for another one; n i have no contact with him at all… I did try to contact him once last month. It was his birthday-n i msged to wish him, but he didn’t even respond with a ‘thank u’. I see he is not interested in me at all, but my heart refuses to believe it. Logically everythg tells me he cares a damn abt me, i knw-its not hate from his side..its indifference. But a part of me keeps thinking that he will realize his love for me one day and contact me. I dont know what to do.
the chemistry waves changed. That happens for some reason.
I fall in love with a guy and its been 6 months now and His telling me that he also love me but he said that we can not tell to anybody else what ever relationship we had. In the first place he had a GF and he said that he can handle it and no need to worry. I want to stop loving this guy since the more I love him the more pain it cause me. I informed him that we should stop on what every relationship that we have and he said that should we waste the 6 months and he dont agree.. But everyday is pain for me…
Hi, I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 yrs, and his parent started not 2 like me 1 yrs ago! Everything was fine with them till he started 2 have a problems @ work 1 yrs ago. His family things I’m the 1 who’s taking his money! But now everything is sorted @ work! So that thing, really stressed me coz thy don’t understand when he explained 2 them! Now our relationship is not good, and the feeling I used to have, is no more! Because I’m thinking about him and I know he love’s his family! So I can’t deal withh all this drama! I asked him for a break and I’m thinking to leave him, because I can’t let him to choose between me and his family! I don’t know I’m doing the right thing by letting him go! I know he loves me too! But this is to much for me!
Hello everyone,
I fell in love and am still in love with someone my family will never accept. He is Turkish and I am Armenian. For the last 8 years we tried to distant ourselves from each other but it didn´t work. Now, I told the majority of my family and I am pressured to make a descision. Him or my family, I can´t have both….it´is so unfair!! What should I do, I am desperate for an answer..
Hi Aria,
You need to be strong and take decision. Think practically and then decide what is more important for you? will you able to spend rest of your life with someone else or not? Is this guy is worth and will keep you happy forever?
Few decisions in life are taken by thinking all pros and cons,not just by heart.
hi friends,
i became friend with my colony member through facebook we used to talk about everything from december 12 to march 3 ….we were good friends and we used to talk about all matters one day suddenly he was kidding like marriage etc i thought he is shy so he is proposing indirectly ….on march 3 he was saying i will marry only girl from my caste because his family is orthodox then onwards his behavior changed a lot…. he used to call me earlier later he was not even receiving my call … if i asked him whats the reason wen he is in facebook he is saying busy … this happened many times i am not talking with him from august15 then also i didnt got any response from him.i wish he could come back and talk to me like earlier.what should i do guys should i move on though it is tough?? why he did this to me … becoming close and suddenly ignoring me not even responding to my messages and i think he said to his friends i am back of him …. wht is the correct step i can take now
Hi I have an extremely complicated situation and I really need to hear an outside opinion. I have been with the father of my 2nd child for 7 years. We have had many problems in the past but because we love eachother we always manage to work through things and get back together. He has a criminal history and a lot of baggage and my family absolutely forbids him to be around. My family has helped me a lot finacially and even let me build a home on their property so I could finally start my life without struggling so much. All this was while my boyfriend and I separated for a year. Now we are trying to work things back out. He even relocated to be with us and rents a property down the road. It’s very difficult because my family will not allow him to be on the property. He is certainly no saint and based on things that have happened in the past I understand why my family just simply doesn’t trust him and don’t think he deserves to share the things my family has helped me achieve. I really need him, our daughter is getting older and he is the only man both my children have ever known. The kids are well aware of the issues my mother has with him, she is pretty blunt about it. I’m almost 30 years old and I’m just not happy without him. Sometimes I think we both would be happier if we moved on and we have tried but it never works and we get back together. I wish I could just stand up to my mom and say he is coming to live with me and we are gonna do this together! She knows how difficult it is for us but she will not budge. She threatens to have him arrested for trespassing. I have just had enough and any advise is welcomed. I don’t know what to do?!?
hi, am in a relationship but i do not feel that spark like before, now i’m in love with dis other guy….loved him from the first time i saw him, thought i wouldn’t work den i backed out…..few months later, heard he liked me, now the love has stirred up, but i feel he doesn’t love me, he snubs me sometimes, is not my friend on Facebook, doesn’t have my number and doesn’t even like my pictures on instagram……its killing me, really…..what do i do?
hey,ruchi….hiiii
i want you to hear my pblm…i love a girl so much…and she loves me tooo…her parents thinks that we are just brothers and sisters and gives us complete freedom which we are misusing..Another problem is her marriage was already fixed with some one another by her parents…..bt she loves only me and can’t live without me..she always thinks negative that we cant live together..so many times i tried to be positive to it..she wont leave her parents and come with me.i cant forget her….i love her so much knowing that i wont get her…am i doing the right thing..pls help me…am i good for her future if she gets to marry that other guy..or at the end will everything be ok?? help me pls
Hey Nisaj,
You both need to talk..if she really loves you and want to be with you and she needs to be strong and talk to parents. And if she is denying to get marry with you then it’s better to move on. It will take time to forget her but try to engage yourself in activities you love to do.
Life is short… The hole time I was reading this I felt like I could die. I want so bad to be with this guy, but he knows nothing about me. The part about expectations, sounded to me like you where talking about uncondicional love, well I’m not the best at that, but who is… EVERYONE says get over it, move on and I just cant do that!
loving one for 2 years nothing more than hopes beliefs and contact through texts few and far between but yet it was so true to both till he gave up a month ago i still love him he just not care no more taring him self to pieces nothing i could even say would even get through for no more communication to be married and he just gave it all up adopted kids and his own he dying and runs away from the most truest of loves someone to see him through to the end best of friends love so pure i could never want anyone one but him always and forever a bond i hope never broke i love paul always.
I fall in luv 4 2yrs with a guy but we were intimate friends untill he got admission in sch then i told him about my fellings he said dat i need sex inside my heart i knw dat is real i never give up i kept on calling him on phone 4 4yrs he never returned any of my calls 4once then i ask y is it dat u don’t return my calls he said dat he is enage with s1 else i accepted with gud faith becos iwant him 2 be happy but it hurts me so muci am confuse wat do i do pls tell me
i’ve been 7 years love someone who love my friends (it’s ok). it’s really hurt me much. then i tired to cried so i move on to my senior. I just love it, suddenly there is news that she already has a girlfriend. so I had to move on again and finally I found it. he is an ex- president of the school. I liked him until I heard that he bought a pink dolphin doll for his female friends. I was very sad and I felt “Why love is always unrequited”?
That’s a good advice . I’ve done it . I don’t expect someone I love to love me back . I’ve been in love with 3 guys. Once when I was in third grade and second when I was ninth and the last year of high school. What I receive is pain . But I never regret loving those guy . But I just decide to be alone .
I love her as much as I can but she doesn’t love me as I do and worst thing is that she doesn’t love me even as A friend,6 years now suffering really don’t know what to do! But you are right just love but dont expect in return,if it wS meant for you then you will be loved bach
I am 59 years old .I lived my whole life alone with only glimmers of love here and there but now I feel a great love for someone who I absolutely can;t have and can’t even tell that I love them.This person is married, has a family and seems very happy.I am shocked that I love her.I defined myself as a heterosexual my whole life and now I am in love with a woman.Worst of all this woman is my doctor.She is a warm and caring person. She heals me , she takes care of me..I could never tell her I love her.She would just tell me to go get another doctor and I would never see her again.Lately I have been avoiding her because I am afraid that she will intuit my feelings and question me.If she asks me if I love her I will have to say yes.Even if she doesn’t become aware of my emotions I will be feeling love every time I see her.Should I go find another doctor and try to forget about her.?
We all fall in love and at the end we got hurt.
Hey ruchi , i want to share my feelings as i can’t share it to anyone
Hello ruchi, i love one of my teacher who is 4 yrs elder thn me and 7 mnth back joined my college . 5 mnth back i started talking him through msgs and call. I said everything to him about my feelings that i like him . He said he will get married after a period of time bt till that time he will do everything 4 me. I also met him . He also promised me that he wil not leave me alone. But now he is ignoring me after his fixed relationship. Its very much hurting. I tried everything to become normal bt its not working. Plz help me.
Move on Prity, He is already in a committed relationship and it’s not worth to plan future with this guy. You might find difficult to forget him but keep yourself busy with things you love and try to ignore him.
Hello Ruchi.
I have hurted gf by telling about our love relation to her family nd my family… And now she is saying to everyone that she doesn’t love me and doesn’t want to marry me. Actually few years ago her parent tells my parent through my uncle that they wanted to marry her daughter with me. And we both know each other as we are classmates, then i ask her personaly and she says yes. But recently her parent started searching other guy for her. And she never want to be against her parent nd let them down. So she strictly warned me to not to tell anyone about our secret love relation. While She loves me nd want to marry with me for 3 years. But now when i tell it to our family, then she is saying like this, that i hurted hur and humiliate her and her family infront of everyone. But she really loved me. What shoult i do??? How can i get her love back?? Plzzz help me…
Hey Ranvijay,
I guess there is some misunderstanding. Ask her when and how you insulted her and her parents? The only thing you can do is to clear all difference and if there is small issue then she and her parents will surely understand. Give it a try. Best luck 🙂
I feel I am falling very badly for one of my friend’s brother.
i addressed him s brother whenever i met him or spoke to him; these days we are talking too much and now i realized he too has fallen for me.
I do not know what to do ? Whats is wrong with me ? I know by calling someone as your brother doesn’t actually make them your’s sibling. Moreover Its been 7 months I am already in a relationship with a guy,who was not serious with me for 6 months, now when he is serious i guess i have moved on 🙁
This is so confusing ! It hurts when the recent guy says me”you would be with someone else” ” move on” ” this is not right, how can i fall for you like this?”
Im also falling love with guy who really loveing me and matching me.he met me 2009 through fb bt we didnt wanna meet.after 4years we met in accidently and fallen in strong love.we both didnt thing dat we are serious but it happen.i really respect him lot caz its really pure love.but he is having someone to marry its family praposel.dat relationship is start in 2010. We are in real.pure relationship but I never can have him.he also protecting me cz he cnt marry me.. Our names also similer/same attiudes /same favorites/even never can beleive our horuscope also same.we cheqed and realy good matching.anyway how many guys comming behind me I cant love them..im honoustly love dis guy but end of the day I know gonna marry another one..im happy dat I love someone very truly without expecting him…
Hello Ruchi,
I just accidently visited your site last week as a result of finding a way out in my life, since then i’m very promisingly recovering from serious torments that i’ve been suffering for the last two years. In this context i might sound very ungrateful/unprincipled but believe me i had no control or clue over it,it is like this…. me and my best friend starting going out with two girls around same time in our lives, now it has been like 3 years. I started my relationship with my GF after a friendsship like 1 and half months….. three of them(my girl, my friend and her girl) study in the same university and we kept on going to many places together as couples. And it came to a point where i figured out that my best friends girl(will call her “S” here on) and i do have kind of similar attitudes/likings. but it really dint bother me much because i do had a girlfriend and she was my best friends girl. But as the time passed by(Being pretty honest i swear that i never knew how it penetrated me and how S sneaked into me) i started feeling bad/jealous\sad when i see them together(S and my friend), i gradually stopped going out together as i was feeling really uncomfortable seeing my best friend with her girl friend. I pretended to be very busy, i started to show lot of love towards my girl, on even the slightest of opportunities i get i tried to show S that i love my girl alot, i tried to show that my girl gets the comforts that your boy doesnt give you, and tried many many stupid stuff which did nothing but kept on deceiving me. Though i did all this my pain kept growing each time i saw my friend with S, For the last two years things never improved and it came to a point where its unbearable when i got to know that they are hoping to register their marriage this year. Consequently i started looking for answers to this heartache i’m having,,,,, my girlfriend does love me a lot but very whinny, as a good step forward i openly said her about the weaknesses that i see on her thinking that if she improves it might help me to love her more and forget all rubbish. it worked to an extent but i realized each time i see them on FB news feed i do suffer enormous torments for the next hour or so. Then for some reason finally i bumped into your site, i kept on practicing the points you have told above and also the points in “How To Get Over Someone You See Everyday” article. Im doing well right now ruchi, i always look into their profiles and photos together and do practice the point “Accept the fact that you are not in relation with that person and if you will continue, you will only get tears on your side.”….Actually ruchi once and forever i want to keep my faith to both my girl and my firend, i know may sound like a B**ta*d but please believe me it wasnt intentional….im trying to do my best to forget all this and start a new life, i think i cacn succeed,so thanks alot for serving people like us, only the one who has experienced it in real knows how painful it is…. eagerly looking foreward for your co-operation AND EVEN THE SLIGHTEST OF YOUR ADVISE IS TRULY WELCOME… thank you again
Hey,
Glad you liked the advice and following too..See it’s really tough to forget someone whom you meet now and then or keep on getting updates from them. But gradually you will get used to it, just keep your self busy and try to ignore the FB updates from them. Start thinking something else when you see their updates. It really works.
And don’t feel guilty about your thoughts, it happens but now concentrate on your gf, she loves you and try to bring spark in your relationship and make sure its for you both not for “S”. Best luck 🙂
Hey ruchi,
With great anguish im replying you that i have been trying honestly and hard to get my life back but No matter what, whenever i see her or see something related to her i still get deeply upset i feel like running out of my life its that depressing and disheartening… please have you got any final word of advice for me!!!!!
You will get over with time..Cherish time you spent with her. Make your mind that you can’t force anyone to love you. Be positive, if she is not in your life then I am sure there would be someone better who would love you for what you are. Life is having another plan. Best luck 🙂
I am in love with a girl who says me often brother. i am 26 yr old n she is just 20 yr old. I am also confused by our age diff. She often calls me brother that’s why i also hesitate to propose her because i don’t want to hurt her. I cried badly lots of time whenever i miss her. i also feel that she does not love me because of my age and i am also not good looking. we both talk in class, Facebook and also we do text.
I got an answer to my dilema. It seems my love for my doctor is a case of transference. When I was a little girl I had an aunt who was very dear to me she was very protective of me and very supportive.She had the same qualities that my doctor has.She is no longer living and when I found someone like her I felt that special love again.Now I just have to realize my love for my doctor is a transferred love.
I need advice please my heart is torn and broken 🙁
About two years ago I had a break down after loosing my job of years and being married to a man with children from a previous marriage and being treated with no respect or appreciation. I guess I lost myself throughout the years and began to mess around on a website for someone to talk to. I talked to a few men and it was nice conversation but I just didn’t have it in me to presu anything further until I met HIM. For a year and half we had talked everyday building a friendship and a deep love between the both of us however; we are both married but not happy in our current relationship. We are alike and have so much passion between Us that we can never see each other without being all over each other, when we are not together we feel empty. When we are not talking on the phone we are emailing or texting. Keeps getting stronger with everyday until guilt started playing on his mind more than mine because of his religion and choices. He tells me he can’t love me anymore. He said I can’t stop loving you but I can stop seeing you and outing us in that position. The next week he tells me he loves me but can’t anymore, that he loves his wife and can never love another woman whole. I ask him what about our love? He said it’s suppressed and being purged out of his system. The guilt was getting to him and he told me he needs to remove himself from my life so I can focus on my marriage and he could focus on his but we never have gone longer than a day without talking in all that time. I’m thinkinking we will talk again but he refusing to talk to me he don’t answer my text my mail and won’t call me and hasn’t for 2 months
You are totally true!(: we shouldn’t even expect anything from them but still love hurts when u gave everything(your trust)to your partner i dont knkw why they hurt the people that they love:/
what the hell am i supposed to do if i am dreaming about a girl, im sick of this shit, every time i fall in love its with someone i cant have, and this blody time im dreeaming about her, its terrable, im used to not being abe to have someone, but when she wants me too its even harder, stupid dreams !
Its ridiculous one girl i have always liked since 7 years ago is gettin married next year, when i meet her she had boyfriend after almost 2 years she broke up with him, we hanged out 2 times and were gettin close but suddenly she returned with him, then got married then divorced after 1 month of marriage, then i was with another girl my first girlfriend (but i still felt something for her) then i broke up with my girlfriend but she was again with another boyfriend!! then got engaged !! then she has also sent me an invitation to her wedding, i mean i dont think she doesnt know that i like her, shes very pretty, why invite me to her wedding if she knows i like her, obviosly i wont go…damn how Hard is this Love thing
Hi Ruchi i also have this problem, i just broke with my girlfriend 6 months ago(3 years relationship), she was sweet and pretty but also had many emotional changes even insulting me sometimes, while i didnt, and even hiting me in the face one time, but i always loved her and forgived her, but there was arguing for any stupid things,but what hurted me the most was that she had this whatssap messaged talkin with guys and i didnt liked that she knew it and always keep doing it a little even when she knew the guys were filrting with her, so that was it i couldnt stand it more, and we were thinking in marriage (intimacy was great between us) but i knew i would suffer if i got married with her, and decided to Break up, my problem is i feel attraction for other girls but i have not been in social circles since i started goin out with her, im 31 years old, is it ok if i like 22 years girls? some friends and my Mom tells me is not good beacause they will cheat on me (for being younger) i dont understand , i think not all girls are the same, thanks a lot …Hugs
Hey Dan,
It’s good that you broke up because such girls are not worth. When it comes to a serious relationship, age/weight/looks doesn’t matter. But since there is a age difference, you will find it tough to get along with young girls. Their lifestyle, their thinking and there would be always insecurities in relationship. 21 year old girls won’t be so mature as you and this gap might cause a problem for you later. And it’s not that only young girls cheat, girl of any age can do that.
So, my advice is take your time and don’t rush to find a partner just because you are single right now. it’s better to be single rather than someone who is not worth for you. Go out, make friends and if you think that someone is there whom you can trust and love then think of getting into relationship.
Best luck. Hope it helps 🙂
I do love someone so much … Till these day he completely broke my heart into pieces and I still love him with every broken pieces of my heart …
It s been like a year I am still not able to move on no matter how hard I tried
Till this moment I cry for him …
I have reason this with my mind and heart guess … But I failed and still waiting that one day he will come back to me !!! I do my affirmation for my love every single day for my love to return to me
Hello Ruchi i also have a problem.i loved a girl for three years only thinking about her. she was so beautiful good looking cute. i felt that she is the one for me but i never talked with her .i know every small detail about her life. i used to think about her in every second of my life but now she is going to get married with another person .so i decided to forget about her but i can,t.the more i think of losing her the more i think her being with me .i cry everyday thinking that she is about to get married.i can,t to do anything. i feel like that i am alone and i feel like not living in this world can you please give me a solution for this problem?
you may think its a simple problem but its a serious problem to me please give me a best solution because i can,t live without her
Hello Ruchi .i loved a girl for three years only thinking about her. she was so beautiful good looking cute. i felt that she is the one for me but i never talked with her .i know every small detail about her life. i used to think about her in every second of my life but now she is going to get married with another person .so i decided to forget about her but i can,t.the more i think of losing her the more i think her being with me .i cry everyday thinking that she is about to get married.i can,t to do anything. i feel like that i am alone and i feel like not living in this world can you please give me a solution for this problem?
you may think its a simple problem but its a serious problem to me please give me a best solution because i can,t live without her
Hey Ben,
First of all, never ever wait to express your feelings with someone you love. It’s hard but you never know, it might turn out in a positive response and even if it’s a negative response then you you have to accept fact that you can’t make everyone fall in love with you.
Now that time is passed and she is already committed, it’s time to move on. Dying for someone is never a solution, it shows the sign of cowardliness. May be you will get someone better in near future.
thankyou that just puts everything I been through into perspective brings much clarity I will adhere to rather her friendship then nothing at all
hi I am getting on much better with my friend after reading your advice thankyou very much